Ok well i figured it out after a long while and well i should just help people in the future that may need this

so heres how i did it open /etc/exim.conf go to the "ROUTERS CONFIGURATION" area. add this at the top
PHP Code:
send_to_gateway:
driver = manualroute
domains = !+local_domains
transport = remote_smtp
route_list = * smtp.domain.com:26
now go to the "TRANSPORTS CONFIGURATION" and comment out the following lines
PHP Code:
remote_smtp:
driver = smtp
interface = ${if exists {/etc/mailips}{${lookup{$sender_address_domain}lsearch{/etc/mailips}{$value}{}}}{}}
helo_data = ${if exists {/etc/mailhelo}{${lookup{$sender_address_domain}lsearch{/etc/mailhelo}{$value}{$primary_hostname}}}{$primary_ho stname}}
now add this above
PHP Code:
remote_smtp:
driver = smtp
delay_after_cutoff = false
no_retry_include_ip_address
port = 26
renember set xim.conf to read only now or cPanel will override it
should work great