I love the Boxtrapper tool because it is the best tool I've found for keeping spam from reaching my inbox. But, like many have found, the backscatter can be even worse than the spam.
I recently left A Small Orange and moved to Hostgator just because ASO did away with Boxtrapper and Hostgator still offered it. I forgot to copy my whitelist and blacklist over from ASO so I was basically starting from scratch at Hostgator. Once I got everything up and running, it seemed to be working like a dream. Until about a day later, that is. That's when all of the e-mails came in saying that my messages couldn't be delivered for 24 hours but that the server would keep trying. These were the confirmation messages to spammers that were getting bounced back.
A day later, a fresh set of 24 hour notices, along with all of the 48 hour notices from the previous day's messages. The third day featured 72, 48, and 24-hour notices. This was worse than anything I had experienced at ASO. I knew I had to either figure out a way to resolve it or else give up on the dream of a mostly spam-free inbox.
After trying a few things, my last resort was in the Edit Confirmation Messages menu. I decided to blank out all four messages, hoping that confirmation messages wouldn't even be sent. The next day I still got all of my notices about undelivered e-mails but, over the next 3 days, once they had all worked their way through the system and the server finally gave up on all of them, they all went away. I'm now back to being spam free with no backscatter.
I now just go into the review queue once a day and give a quick glance down the list looking for items that need to be approved. It's working like a dream. I doubt I'm the first person to figure this out but I wanted to share it in case it can help somebody.
Now all I need is a radio button for the 'Delete this message and blacklist the sender' to appear on the main page of the review queue along with the delete and whitelist buttons and things would be perfect.
I recently left A Small Orange and moved to Hostgator just because ASO did away with Boxtrapper and Hostgator still offered it. I forgot to copy my whitelist and blacklist over from ASO so I was basically starting from scratch at Hostgator. Once I got everything up and running, it seemed to be working like a dream. Until about a day later, that is. That's when all of the e-mails came in saying that my messages couldn't be delivered for 24 hours but that the server would keep trying. These were the confirmation messages to spammers that were getting bounced back.
A day later, a fresh set of 24 hour notices, along with all of the 48 hour notices from the previous day's messages. The third day featured 72, 48, and 24-hour notices. This was worse than anything I had experienced at ASO. I knew I had to either figure out a way to resolve it or else give up on the dream of a mostly spam-free inbox.
After trying a few things, my last resort was in the Edit Confirmation Messages menu. I decided to blank out all four messages, hoping that confirmation messages wouldn't even be sent. The next day I still got all of my notices about undelivered e-mails but, over the next 3 days, once they had all worked their way through the system and the server finally gave up on all of them, they all went away. I'm now back to being spam free with no backscatter.
I now just go into the review queue once a day and give a quick glance down the list looking for items that need to be approved. It's working like a dream. I doubt I'm the first person to figure this out but I wanted to share it in case it can help somebody.
Now all I need is a radio button for the 'Delete this message and blacklist the sender' to appear on the main page of the review queue along with the delete and whitelist buttons and things would be perfect.