Until around September time, most of our servers had 1 to 2Gb of RAM, but due to the increase in spam (and hence processing time/requirements), we had to upgrade all servers to 4Gb to prevent slowdowns when we received a lot of inbound spam (at one point, over 2,000 emails per hour with 80% being marked as spam via MailScanner). As per usual - the more memory and CPU resources you can through at a server, the better
(oh, and in regards the dumb question - I don't mind them from anybody as long as the question asker provides details, shows they've tried to resolve/investigated/searched the issue and have got confused. I do, however, like many people probably on this board hate the "Help! I need help now! (no other information)" style ones or ones that don't contain error messages etc. We're a reasonable helpful and friendly bunch here, and ask long as you help us help you, they'll be no problems of any questions :D )